Care and support

Felicity

I became a shared carer 15 years ago and because of my home circumstances I care for children in their own homes as a sitter. I do this for three boys and one girl. Being a sitter means you can become part of the child’s life and become close to the whole family. I have found this immensely rewarding and all the families seem to appreciate this arrangement.

Five years ago I was matched with Callum. At first his mum was very concerned about how things would turn out but happily Callum and I hit it off straight away and her mind was set at rest.

To begin with Callum didn’t speak so we communicated using a special language called Makaton and sign language. He was very good at getting his message across and through the hard work of his parents and school, and Callum’s own determination to speak, he is now pretty competent which is lovely.

I visit Callum once a week for two hours and we do what ever he wants, like playing with his toys or playing outside. We always have fun as Callum is a happy boy with a lovely sense of humour. I find the visits are always rewarding although being with him can be tiring as he never stops. He always seems to enjoy himself and that’s the most important thing. I’m proud to count Callum and his parents as friends.

Becoming a short break carer has made me really aware of how difficult life can be for parents of a child with a disability. Shared carers really are providing a much needed service.

Callum’s parents:
Our seven year old son Callum has Global Development Delay which affects all aspects of his life. His shared carer has been a great asset in his life and he really looks forward to her coming. Callum enjoys the sociability and is extremely happy with her company and sees her as a friend.

Felicity has proven to be a great help both to us and to Callum, always friendly, chatty, helpful and caring. We cannot praise her and the service enough. Thank you.